Proposing without a ring: Engagement ring alternatives
When planning a proposal, your mind may jump to finding the perfect engagement ring. But this isn’t everything. In fact, proposing without a ring is becoming increasingly common, as many couples are now waiting until they’re engaged to choose a ring together — or skip the ring completely!
So, how can you propose without a ring and still make the experience extra special for your significant other? In this blog post, we’ve rounded up the best alternatives to engagement rings, from temporary engagement ring ideas to permanent substitutes, to help you create a moment your partner will never forget.
A special pendant
A pendant or necklace is a great alternative to an engagement ring. If you are just looking for a temporary placeholder, you can choose something that will complement the engagement ring. And if it is a permanent engagement ring alternative, you can even personalise it with a special engraving or design that represents your relationship.
The great thing about pendants is that each one is so personal. You can find something truly unique for your partner, making it an especially meaningful gift. From a pendant with their birthstone as the central gem to a locket with a picture of the two of you inside, this is a fantastic choice if you’re looking for jewellery with a sentimental touch.
A wedding band
If you aren’t getting an engagement ring, why not skip straight to the wedding band? This is a fantastic option for those with a more minimalist style who prefer a simple band to an elaborate ring. Plus, it can make your wedding day extra special if you take your ring off the day before and are reunited with it on your special day. You can even choose a wedding band for yourself so you and your partner can share the moment.
A brooch
Is your partner not a big jewellery person? A brooch is a great alternative, and a truly unique way of proposing. While they were once considered to be somewhat old-fashioned, brooches have become more popular in recent years and are worn by people of all ages. Like pendants, they can also be incredibly unique, making them a meaningful option.
A brooch is a very versatile accessory, too. Whether worn on a chain, a scarf, a bag, or on a jacket alongside other brooches, you certainly aren’t short of ways to style it. It can even be worn on the big day, too, by attaching it to the dress, veil, or suit.
A memento for an upcoming trip
The perfect way to celebrate a recent engagement is with a fun trip. So why not make an upcoming getaway part of your proposal? If you’re still planning on giving your partner a ring or another piece of jewellery, you can do this on the trip and turn it into a second proposal — because why give them one when you can surprise them with two?
The memento can be a small but special keepsake related to the destination. For example, if you’re planning a romantic trip to Paris, give them a miniature Eiffel Tower. Or if you’re jetting off on a beach trip, give them a message in a bottle filled with sand for a truly unique memento.
A handwritten letter
What better way to show you care than with a handwritten letter? This is a beautiful way to express your true feelings to your partner, and when you write them down, they can cherish them forever. One option is to write down your proposal speech in letter form, so they get to read it and enjoy the moment again and again. Writing your speech down also means that nothing gets forgotten in the exciting (but slightly nerve-racking) moment.
Alternatively, you can write down something completely different — but just as meaningful — for them to enjoy. This could be anything from a reflection on your relationship, a list of the reasons you love them, or even a story about the moment you knew they were “the one”. When it comes to sentimental engagement ring alternatives, a handwritten letter is one of the best.
Ready to pop the question? Whether you choose to propose with an engagement ring or one of these alternatives, your other half is sure to appreciate the thought and care that has gone into planning the perfect proposal. Looking for more tips for making your engagement extra special? Check out our blog for even more articles, like our blog post on engagement ring trends and the most Instagrammable places to propose.
